I have been privy to a mess of fb messages between the rescuer and the woman who owned the cats (and left them in the dust when she moved) It is a hodgepodge of misinformation starting with insisting (in the original plea to take this cat) that the cat is loving, friendly, likes all other cats and people….To when the rescuer emailed her in a panic when this cat went aggressive on her for no reason the response was “Oh ya, the cat is a real bitch! She got me maybe three-four times in the 9 years of us having her.” (I am paraphrasing here)
At any rate it is clear from the tone of the messages and the rate of hostility that occurs within them as they go along that this woman was a bit unbalanced to begin with and the husband bf tried to kill himself in front of the cat but the cops were called and his life was saved. Now he just wants to die (apparently). What a mess. I did tell the rescuer that this cat might not be able to be saved for she gives off every impression of being abused or mistreated. We will take it one day at a time, move slowly and keep our guard up and see how it goes. I have had worse cases here and been able to turn them around- but then there have been times when we just had to admit defeat and send the cat off to the Bridge. Time will tell- she is friendly this morning- but she is on a “No touch no contact” order for now.
Don’t you love the ones who lie outright about things just to get their own way? I wonder why the owner bothered too have the cat rescued at all, the stupid person.
well john, you know it could have been worse, she could have just put the cat outside somewhere and said see ya. So I guess she has some love for the cat, even if only deep down inside and wanted to give it a chance of a good life. Perhaps with Mary Anne and her being a favorite of God’s, it can happen, and if worse case comes to fruition and it needs to go to the bridge, it had that chance and it will go in peace, Purrayers for Mary Anne and twirl!